GAYLORD - A Gaylord soldier whose family described him as a “patriotic,” “a thrill-seeker” and “addicted to family,” died Wednesday in a vehicle rollover in Iraq.
U.S. Army Pfc. John Thomas Bishop, 22, died when a Mine Resistant Ambush Protected (MRAP) vehicle carrying six soldiers rolled down a hill into a canal after a bridge or road gave way, according to his wife, Diane Lynn (Caddell) Bishop.
Bishop, a member of the Fort Campbell Kentucky 101st Airborne Division, was deployed to Iraq last summer.
“John’s feeling honorable right now,” said his wife during a telephone interview Friday. “He was proud of what he did. He never had a regret.”
According to Bishop’s father, John William Bishop of Gaylord, one other soldier died in the rollover.
Bishop awoke to screaming at approximately 11:30 Wednesday night when his wife, Gaye, learned of their son’s death when military officers arrived at the couple’s home.
“It’s been tough,” his father said in a telephone interview Friday. “He was a great kid ” a great son ” well liked by all the kids in town.
“He was very patriotic,” his father added. Young Bishop enlisted in the service in August of 2006.
Diane, who was staying with her mother about 10 miles south of Gaylord, was in town Wednesday evening when her mother called her to come home.
“I knew,” Diane said, implying she knew something bad happened to her husband.
“I started asking God for it not to be.”
Assuming the worse, Diane asked a friend to ride with her.
“My stomach was in knots the whole way home ” it seemed like an hour.”
When she arrived, she recognized the vehicle in the driveway; she had seen it the first time she met the officer from Camp Grayling.
Her mother and friend took Diane by the arms and walked her up the officers where she learned she was a widow at the age of 21.
John Thomas Bishop attended Gaylord High School and earned his GED ahead of his class as a sophomore.
Bishop came from a service-oriented family. His ancestors fought as far back as the American Revolutionary War, noted his father. The elder Bishop served during the Vietnam War and his eldest son, Bernie Bishop, enlisted during the Persian Gulf War.
Young Bishop’s brother, Kevin Tye of Gaylord, is serving his second tour in Iraq. Because of his brother’s death, he will return home today (Saturday).
Bishop was a daredevil; he loved life, snowmobiling, skydiving, fishing and driving fast, according to his father.
“He was a thrillseeker,” he said.
Diane Bishop, who said the couple would have celebrated their first anniversary in July, agreed. She went on two skydiving adventures with her husband, who was her best friend long before their first kiss, she said.
“My mom used to say my life will never be boring,” Diane said. “My life hasn’t been boring for a day since I met John. I’m not too sure how I’m going to experience too many new things without him.”
The couple met during their freshman year of high school.
“He and I were best friends all through high school,” said Diane.
But the summer before her senior year, something changed.
“He kissed me,” she said. “Then I ignored his phone calls for three days. I thought, why is my best friend kissing me?”
The couple was inseparable and when he was home on block leave, before leaving for Iraq, he asked her to marry him. She said, yes. The couple went to Las Vegas and were they were married. Family and friends were able to watch the couple wed through a live Internet broadcast.
“My parents fully supported it,” she said. “They knew we were soulmates since we were 15.”
Her husband was home on leave last month. The couple had just decided he would re-enlist for six years.
Bishop is survived by two half-brothers, Bernie Bishop and Kevin Tye and two half-sisters, Jennifer Tye and Lisa Katchmark, and two nieces Ashley, 20, and Amanda, 12, Katchmark.
“He was addicted to family,” said Diane. “There’s nothing that he’d rather do than stand out on the dock and fish with all the kids or throw a couple of the kids in the car and take them to ice cream.”
“There’s nothing he wouldn’t try once, that’s for sure he’s so much fun” his wife said.
Bishop’s body is expected to be returned to Gaylord in seven to 10 days when the family expects to have a full military funeral service.
“I believe you cannot support the troops without supporting the war ” ask any soldier in Iraq or Afghanistan,” said Diane.
“If you don’t want to stand behind them, stand in front of him. John wouldn’t be scared: He was proud of what he was doing.”
Contact Jil Schult at 748-4518 or
jil@gaylordheraldtimes.com.
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